Thanksgiving is a favorite holiday for many people. After all, what’s not to love about family and friends gathered together to share a great meal and count their blessings? However, for those in the LGBTQ+ community, Thanksgiving and other holidays are not always a cause for celebration. Complicated family dynamics and lack of acceptance sometimes make for lonely and blue days this time of year.
That’s exactly the reason that the Friendlier City Project recently hosted its inaugural Queer Thanksgiving feast. Held at the Wheeling Yacht Club on Tuesday, November 22 and catered by several local restaurants who donated their signature dishes, the event was attended by about 30 guests who enjoyed an evening of food, fun and friendship in a safe and accepting atmosphere. Guests were welcomed by FCP organizers Rosemary Ketchum and Mikaya Green, then there was a brief pause for an emotional moment of silence in memory of the victims of the recent mass shooting at Club Q in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Many of the Queer Thanksgiving attendees were still processing their emotions over this tragedy even as they gathered for a time of festive celebration. This hate crime weighed heavily on the minds of some guests, who told Weelunk that they were initially hesitant to attend the dinner in the wake of the shooting. However, those who didn’t allow fear to win out were rewarded with an evening of comfort and pleasant diversion.
The initial idea for this type of gathering for the LGBTQ+ community was suggested by FCP member Robyn Plunkett, who remarked that although she was glad to see a good turnout for the dinner, she is also sad to think that many of the guests may not have anywhere else to go for Thanksgiving. She was happy, however, that FCP provided this opportunity for people to be together for a night of celebration in warm and welcoming surroundings. “It’s important because everyone deserves a place where they feel like they belong; where they can be their real selves. If one’s blood relatives won’t offer that place, then we will,” Plunkett said.
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